How can you be happy when no one's with you? You can be lonely in a crowd of people in the mall; in church; in school; in the office; even in your own family; and of course when you're the only person within your four walls. Is there some Good News for loneliness? Yes:
(1) That's one of the problems that Jesus is well acquainted with. He says, "I have trodden the winepress alone; and of the people there was none with Me" (Isa. 63:3). "I looked for some to take pity, but there was none; and for comforters, but I found none" (Psalm 69:20).
(2) Not one disciple even was there to say a word of encouragement to Him in His dying hour, for "they all forsook Him and fled" (Mark 14:50).
(3) You can be sure that such a One is near to you when you are lonely, for "yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for Thou art with me" (Psalm 23:4). Note: that's not talking only about your death bed: it says "the shadow of death," that is, the dark lonely experiences we have even as teenagers that are the "shadow" of what will come much, much later.
(4) In your loneliness, you hunger for human companionship; that's OK, and natural. But that will ALWAYS disappoint you. Even the best husband or wife in the world cannot take the place of the "Friend that sticketh closer than a brother" (Prov. 18:24). That 23rd Psalm assures you of companionship that alone is totally satisfying.
(5) Mystics talk about "practicing the presence of God," so they set a chair out for "Him" to sit in. You don't need even a whiff of idolatry! Even if Jesus were to come and sit down in your guest chair, He wouldn't be as close to you as He is in fact through your faith. A Friend closer even than someone who has his/her arms around you, for the promise is that "He dwelleth with you, and shall be in you" (John 14:17).
Check it out; get on your knees and talk to Him; you'll know how close He is, because He will for certain respond to you, and always with some kind of message of hope. But don't hoard Him to yourself; somehow, share Him with someone else who is lonely.
Copyright © 2009 by Robert J. Wieland.
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